“I've never
been raped physically, but psychologically a lot of times.”
Women issues
have been and are being talked about everywhere. Women are prepping to wage war
against the atrocities committed against us. If I start listing those, I think
there won’t be an end.
On this issue, I
have decided to pen down all the incidents that I have faced in my life and
this is one of those.
I walked into
the classroom that was filled. I was late to class since I was called after the
assembly by the P.T teacher. She noticed I was wearing a dangling new earring.
She called me to warn against wearing such earrings which would distract the
boys. When I entered, all heads turned and everyone started whispering
something to each other, pointing at me. I did not mind. I was used to all
that. I took my seat. Classes passed. I started sweating and I was in terrible pain.
I was sick. I clutched my stomach and bent on the table to rest, during the
break. I got up quickly when I noticed the teacher entering the class. The day
passed.
Next day, after
the assembly was over, all the girls above sixth standard were asked to stay
back. I was in eighth class. My feminine parts were not developed and I was
flat as a TV screen. The principal went on the stage, took the mike and called
out my name. I went on to the stage. She pointed at the way I was wearing my
dupatta. Folded and pinned. She said I had folded it too narrow. She
enlightened everyone on how to cover ourselves so we don’t attract boys. Then
teachers went to every row and adjusted everyone’s dupatta. I was disgusted
seeing all this. The principal dispersed everyone. Just when I felt relieved,
she called me. I had apparently lifted my shawl up the previous day, exposed my
breast to sexually attract guys. She warned I would be a serious trouble to my
parents if I continued this way. I did not understand what happened. I did not
understand what she spoke. I went back to class to receive the disgusted look
on the teacher’s face, and every other teacher’s face that came to my class.
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ReplyDeleteI wish that life may give the author a chance to revisit her school in an most exposing western dress and raise her headhigh to say that...FU..I'm an adult now..I'm a woman..I dress as I wish and I'm still a virgin on this filthy earth....
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